Sunday, July 24, 2011

ON MOVIES ~ Summertime...

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MONDAY MOVIE MEME

Molly looked around for a weekly meme about movies and did not have any luck. So therefore she decided to start her own! Andy will play along as well - hopefully you will too. Go to your blog and create your own post on the topic, linking back to us in your post, then come back and leave a link to your post here in our Comments section. If you don’t have a blog, just share your response in the Comments section.

This week's movie topic is all about Summer...

Summer is in full swing and yet already there are Back To School commercials starting to pop up. While we still have a week left in July, lets think about all those films set in Summer instead of shopping for backpacks and school clothes. Here are some that we came up with. Share on your blog movies set in the summertime and link back here so that others can find you. And don't forget to visit your fellow participants!

 Do you have a topic to suggest to the Monday Movie Meme? Or would you like to guest host? Let us know in the Comments section or send us an e-mail.

Thursday, July 21, 2011

ON BLOGGING ~ Like A Skipping Record...

BlogAnon: Joy of Confession

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Welcome to our weekly BlogAnon meeting where we confess a particular blogging sin and turn to you for support, suggestions and that blogging bond so we know we're not all alone. Don't be shy. Read along and let us know if you identify with us this week.

I don't like being in a rut. That's where I am in my blogging right now though. I write about Movies each Monday. Wednesdays I expound on the 50 Lessons prompts. Fridays I dish about Blogging - vents or tips.

I have lots of random ideas for the days in between. I have things I want to update you on in our world that I just never get around to covering. I have new features that I feel excited to put into play but then I get distracted by something else. The fact of the matter is, I really only have time for 3 posts a week and each of those days is dedicated to 3 specific things.

So I'm thinking that in the near future I might shake things up a bit and ditch one or all of my rut-creating format posts. Maybe for a month. Maybe forever. It gets old thinking of movie themes. My mind goes blank thinking of blog related tips or topics to talk about sometimes. Even the open-ended prompts from 50 Lessons turns limiting and redundant at times.

Ruts will do that to you. Make you annoyed with everything and spur drastic actions. I've got lots of creative thoughts in this Bumble brain of mine waiting for a turn to express themselves. Time to start a new rut with them. To keep me interested; to keep you interested. Are you ready for the ride?


How do you escape a self-created rut? Did your actions just create a different version of the same beast? Or did it liberate and inspire? How often do you give up on following a blog because of the same-old-same-old routine lacking in excitement?

Tuesday, July 19, 2011

ON FUN ~ Pollyanna's Perspective...


At the age of 45, writer Regina Brett wrote a column for the Cleveland Plain Dealer listing 45 lessons that life had taught her thus far. As a breast cancer survivor, many of those lessons were learned the hard way. Five years later she added five more lessons rounding her list up to 50 and turned her popular list into a book called God Never Blinks. I found her list to be entertaining, inspiring and thought provoking. I thought I would go through each of her lessons learned and write about how that lesson has or has not come up in my own life, now that I am 40 and feel old enough to have finally learned something.

"Frame every so-called disaster with these words: 'in five years, will this matter?'"
~ LESSON #26

Perspective. That's the point here. I'm good at perspective. Often times I get a bit too Pollyanna-ish. Someone comes to me with a complaint and I try to think of how it could be worse. So that they see that things may not be as bad as they feel.

Admittedly, folks don't often want to hear that type of talk when they are feeling miserable and really just want to vent and gain sympathy. But at the appropriate moment, a little perspective can help to get you in the right frame of mind to grab those boot straps.

I believe Regina's lesson above is meant to point out that very few incidents in the long run are truly as awful as they appear to be in the short term. But the fact of the matter is, there are tragedies and disasters that really will still have their impact felt on your life in five years. For those moments, I suppose we should refer all the way back to Lesson #1.

So, go ahead and vent, complain and wallow. Just don't dwell. If it won't be the end of the world still five years from now, why waste any more time than necessary being dramatic over it and put some perspective into play.

Sunday, July 17, 2011

ON MOVIES ~ Favorite Film To Date...

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MONDAY MOVIE MEME

Molly looked around for a weekly meme about movies and did not have any luck. So therefore she decided to start her own! Andy will play along as well - hopefully you will too. Go to your blog and create your own post on the topic, linking back to us in your post, then come back and leave a link to your post here in our Comments section. If you don’t have a blog, just share your response in the Comments section.

This week's movie topic is all about Favorites...

A while ago, Sandy @ You've GOTTA Read This suggested we do a post about our favorite movie viewed year-to-date. She has one in particular that she wanted to gush about and I promised her I would get to this topic. I meant to do it right at the end of June at the halfway point and then forgot. So without further ado, here is our favorite movie that we have watched so far in 2011. Share on your blog your favorite YTD movie - not necessarily one released this year, just a new-to-you film viewed this year, and link back here so that others can find you. And don't forget to visit your fellow participants!
  • Juno (2007) - We are constantly behind the times here with our movie viewing. We watch a lot of movies, don't get me wrong. But we usually don't get to them until a couple of years after they come out. I put new releases on our Netflix queue so that when they get come out on DVD they will automatically get added to our viewing list so I don't forget about them. And then they get buried at the bottom. Which is why four years after its highly acclaimed release, we finally got around to watching this terrific little film.

    The cast was great. The story was quirky and funny, even for such a topic as teen pregnancy. In fact, it was quite touching without being sappy. And we both really enjoyed the entire movie. I can see why it got so much hype. And I'm glad it lived up to it. Expectations tend to balloon pretty high when you give a movie four years of build up before watching it ;0)

 Do you have a topic to suggest to the Monday Movie Meme? Or would you like to guest host? Let us know in the Comments section or send us an e-mail.

Thursday, July 14, 2011

ON BLOGGING ~ Appointment Reading...

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A lot of bloggers, new and experienced, wonder how they could draw in more traffic or attention to their blog and capture that readership via comments. Well, aside from the standard good advice of spending time visiting other blogs to build relationships and providing quality posts for folks to read or view when they visit you, there is one suggestion I can make.

Create a recurring reason for people to stop by. Become appointment reading. Host an event, feature or meme that happens on a regular basis. This doesn't have to be something really formal like a challenge or something requiring Mr. Linky. It can just be a simple theme that you like to cover on a regular basis. Here are a few examples for you from some of my favorite bloggers.

Stacy @ Stacy's Books hosts a round of quizzes throughout the year. She comes up with mostly bookish but also movie related quizzes each week for people to stop by and leave their responses. Then at the end of each quarterly round she gives away some prizes to the overall score and a random drawing. The quizzes are in hiatus right now as she prepares for the next round but it is terrific fun put your thinking cap on and test yourself against other bloggers. I am sure Stacy would tell you that her quizzes provide a constant stream of visitors to her blog each week and have probably converted a few game players into people who come back to see what else she posts about.

Kaye @ The Road Goes Ever On is participating in a year-long read-along of Tolstoy's War & Peace. Although she is not the host of the read-along, she has turned her participatory posts into a recurring feature she calls Thursdays With Tolstoy. In addition to summarizing the plot from the week's reading, she also shares the historical tidbits of interest that she has researched, wonderful illustrations and clips bringing the story more to life while providing her opinion on the book. I am sure that many people who are not participating in the read-along make a point to stop by and read her updates each week because they are enjoyable, entertaining and educational. I know I do.

Candace @ Beth Fish Reads hosts a series called Weekend Cooking that encourages bloggers to link up each weekend to posts they have written about food - such as recipes, foodie books, cookbook reviews, photos, movies or even just food quotes. She puts up her food related post of the weekend and lets bloggers connect through this meme of sorts by sharing their links on her site so it is easy to view and visit like-minded foodies. This feature is very popular and I bet Candace will tell you that the broad range of bloggers drawn in to her through this is a big plus. I'm sure a lot of them stick around to see what she has to say about the world of books when she's not talking food.

Perhaps you have something that is of interest to you and you find yourself wanting to cover it more formally on a regular basis. Go ahead and start your own feature. It doesn't have to be anything that requires readers to join in or play along. It can just be something that you like to share, teach, vent or display. You'd be surprised how a recurring item can make you stick in readers' minds and keep them stopping by more often. It doesn't need to be a permanent fixture - just something you want to do for a few months or a year before moving on to something else. Or you can start small and build it into a more interactive idea, inviting your readers to provide their own contributions through your blog.

Rather than joining all of the wonderful challenges, memes and other events out there in the blogosphere, use your space to highlight your own set of ideas on a recurring basis. Serialize a story, give a virtual photo tour of your favorite places, lay out a collection of family recipes, review favorite movies from the past or share tips on your favorite hobby. Whatever you choose, it should be something that excites you, makes you look forward to writing about each time and injects some fun back into your blogging process. Enthusiasm is contagious. And that's a sure way to draw interest to your thoughts and your blog.

Tuesday, July 12, 2011

ON FUN ~ Put On A Happy Face...

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At the age of 45, writer Regina Brett wrote a column for the Cleveland Plain Dealer listing 45 lessons that life had taught her thus far. As a breast cancer survivor, many of those lessons were learned the hard way. Five years later she added five more lessons rounding her list up to 50 and turned her popular list into a book called God Never Blinks. I found her list to be entertaining, inspiring and thought provoking. I thought I would go through each of her lessons learned and write about how that lesson has or has not come up in my own life, now that I am 40 and feel old enough to have finally learned something.

"No one is in charge of your happiness but you."
~ LESSON #25

Boy is that lesson true. You can spend all your life waiting around for someone else to come along and make you happy. In love, in work, in spirit. And you will miss out on so many opportunities for happiness in the process.

Like everything else, if you want it done right, you've got to do it yourself. Wallowing around waiting for someone else to solve your problems is wasteful. Your time and my time here is so precious. Use it most productively by being active, not passive.

One thing that I learned in my twenties was that when I was dwelling on my lack of a Prince Charming all it did was make me more unattractive to people out there. When I decided that I didn't need a Prince Charming in order to go out and enjoy myself, I started having a good time, smiling more and being self-sufficient about my happiness. Then out of the blue a suitor would show up interested in a date.

When things haven't always worked well for me financially, I didn't just whine about it and wait for a bank or sugar daddy to come along and save the day. I learned how to budget and work with my debt. I felt proud of myself for working hard to find a way out of trouble and back to saving pennies. I enjoyed and appreciated the treats I had because I gave them to myself.

When life has just not been fair to my loved ones, all that I know how to do is to provide normalcy for them. It makes me happy to make other people happy. So yes, although others can make you happy, in the end, only you decide what to accept and what to create for yourself. If you're going to sit in a corner waiting for someone else to make you happy, you'll be sadder than you ever imagined.

Sunday, July 10, 2011

ON MOVIES ~ We're Havin' A Heat Wave...

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MONDAY MOVIE MEME

Molly looked around for a weekly meme about movies and did not have any luck. So therefore she decided to start her own! Andy will play along as well - hopefully you will too. Go to your blog and create your own post on the topic, linking back to us in your post, then come back and leave a link to your post here in our Comments section. If you don’t have a blog, just share your response in the Comments section.

This week's movie topic is all about Heat...

Devoted Monday Movie Meme-er Nicole @ The Madlab Post recently suggested a topic for us that I thought was very appropriate given the weather we have been having here in the Boston region lately. She wanted to discuss movies containing a heat wave or extreme summer heat that was present in but not necessarily the focus of the film. I have lived in plenty of apartments through the years that did not have A/C and were so hot that I would come home to find our cats passed out inside of the cool bathtub porcelain. So I can relate to a nasty bout of steamy weather. Thankfully we have central air in our home now, otherwise I would be too cranky to think of movies for you. That being said, I only have one selection for you today. But I think its a good one. Share on your blog movies that turned the heat on their characters and link back here so that others can find you. And don't forget to visit your fellow participants!
  • Summer of Sam (1999) - Spike Lee's take on the summer of 1977 in NYC when fear and paranoia over a serial killer dubbed the Son of Sam was heightened by a blackout in the middle of an overpowering heat wave. Very cool character study - albeit crass and filled with sex - not unlike many 70's movies I suppose ;0)

 Do you have a topic to suggest to the Monday Movie Meme? Or would you like to guest host? Let us know in the Comments section or send us an e-mail.

Thursday, July 7, 2011

ON BLOGGING ~ Under Review...


This week's post is less about giving a blogging tip than it is about seeking helpful tips from you. Specifically, I would love input today from the reviewers out there. Those of you who review things on your blogs - be they books, products, movies or any other item.

I feel it is important that if you have a recurring review feature or format to have clear guidelines available on your blog. One set of guidelines would be for those wishing to supply you with items to review. It explains your review policy - what you do or don't accept, your time table for producing a review, what you will provide in exchange and what you won't.

Another set of guidelines would be for those reading your reviews. It explains your review process - the categories or qualities you evaluate, the definition of any ranking system and why you reviewed it to begin with.

Since the Quirky Girls and I are trying to establish some policies for books that we review I thought it best to solicit advice from those of you with experience in such matters. So tell me, what kind of review guidelines do you have in place? How did you decide what they would be? And where do you put them so that interested folks can find them?

Sunday, July 3, 2011

ON PHOTOS ~ Tell Me About Your Camera...



I need a new camera. I know, I know. I just received the above camera for Christmas a year and a half ago. And it frustrates me to no end. The auto settings are fine outside in the daylight. Once I move indoors or encounter lower light, it gets ugly. I can't manipulate the manual settings to improve things and I don't have any patience left to figure it out.

I was an Olympus girl. I loved my prior point and shoot Olympus but it was the size of a DSLR. Too bulky for me to cart around. I wanted something slim and compact that would provide the easy high quality of shots without a second thought that I was used to. I also wanted an extensive zoom ability. So the Olympus Stylus seemed to fit the bill.

Not so much. Indoor/low light shots are always grainy - even just inside during the day. Everyone else's photos from the same circumstances come out fine. My prior camera's shots in these settings came out fine. Not the Stylus. The auto setting washes everything out with overpowering flash. Manual settings make things a different hue and very grainy. As I said, I have read through the manual and tried different settings but rarely do I get the result I want. I don't want to manually interpret and set anything.

The focus is also a problem. Half pressing the button makes things looks perfect and then it won't hold long enough to take the shot. It comes out blurry. The extreme zoom isn't worthwhile because it just makes the quality fuzzy. What looks promising on the display screen turns out horrible on the computer screen, without any magnification of the image. Or even worse, I have the perfect shot, and when I press the button, nothing happens. It just decides not to work sporadically, regardless of battery life.

I have gotten some really great photos out of it - but the percentage is too low. I need higher consistency. As much as I wish that all my photo taking opportunities were outside on a beautifully clear sunny day, that just isn't the case. So before I go out and get yet another camera to attempt to solve my photo frustrations, please tell me:


  • what you use



  • what you like most about your model



  • what you like least about your model



  • Sony Cyber-shot? Canon PowerShot? Nikon Coolpix? Kodak Easyshare? Panasonic Lumix? Fugifilm FinePix? Something different? **Point & Shoot model input only please.**

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