Thursday, April 28, 2011

ON BLOGGING ~ When Short Is Truly Sweet...


I'm all for shortcuts. Help me to get somewhere or do something more quickly and I am a happy Bumble. All that saved time lets me savor the extra moments doing the things I truly enjoy.

Which leads me to my blogging tip post for today. The following information may be elementary to you - old hat tricks that you know like the back of your speedy typing hand. But I am sure there are folks out there who have no idea. Or some who will appreciate the handy reminder.

What follows are a handful of keyboard shortcuts that I find most useful in my day to day typing - whether at work or in the blogosphere. I have no idea if these work in the world of Mac - probably unlikely. But in the Windows system, they do. Hold these keys down simultaneously and test them out for yourself.

COPY = Control + C
CUT = Control + X
PASTE = Control +V
PHOTO ROTATE CLOCKWISE = Control + Period
PHOTO ROTATE COUNTER CLOCKWISE = Control + Comma
REDO = Control + Y
REFRESH SCREEN = F5 Key
RENAME = F2 Key
SELECT ALL = Control + A
SELECT TEXT = Shift + Arrow Up or Arrow Down or Arrow Left or Arrow Right
START MENU = Control + Escape (or just Windows Logo Key)
TOGGLE BETWEEN OPEN WINDOWS = Control + Alt + Tab, then arrow to the one you want
UNDO = Control + Z

Do you have any favorite shortcut keys?

Tuesday, April 26, 2011

ON FUN ~ Stress Fracture...

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At the age of 45, writer Regina Brett wrote a column for the Cleveland Plain Dealer listing 45 lessons that life had taught her thus far. As a breast cancer survivor, many of those lessons were learned the hard way. Five years later she added five more lessons rounding her list up to 50 and turned her popular list into a book called God Never Blinks. I found her list to be entertaining, inspiring and thought provoking. I thought I would go through each of her lessons learned and write about how that lesson has or has not come up in my own life, now that I am 40 and feel old enough to have finally learned something.

"Breathe. It calms the mind."
~ LESSON #47

I think that I handle stress pretty well. I certainly don't enjoy the process, but I know how to get through it. The other Bumble in these parts however? Not so much. Poor Andy does not do stress. He lets it eat him up. Create anxiety. Freeze his brain. He needs to breathe deep.

I have seen him practically fall apart over unexpected work crises until I thought maybe he should find a different career. It isn't like he works in the ER or anything (in fact, watching the show ER used to give him the willies). He works in construction which comes with constant changes and deadlines of its own. But seriously - the work he does is not structural to the point that a building could collapse and injure someone. We're just talking about renovations to retail stores here. Roofs leak, temps go MIA, inspections go awry. It happens. Daily. Deep breath.

But the worst is when he watches sports - hockey more than anything. I am convinced he will have a heart attack from minute to minute. He is stressed when the Bruins are behind and running out of time. He is stressed when the Bruins are ahead and time seems to go more slowly than possible. And when things are tied - in OT? Well, I don't even know why he watches at all. How is it enjoyable to be tight as a coiled spring for several hours straight? If not for all the yelling and gyrations he makes throughout the game, I'd wonder if he was over there holding his breath, forgetting to breathe at all.

Focusing on that deep breath instead of whatever panic has put those blinders on interrupts your brain for a minute. Long enough to take your mind off of the stress and on yourself instead. To notice how tight those muscles are. How fast your thoughts were racing, or not able to move at all. A deep breath allows you to take stock and punch that reset button. Clear thoughts, calm approach. Deep breaths are what you need - not hyperventilating over hockey.

Monday, April 25, 2011

ON BOOKS ~ Hotel On The Corner Of Bitter And Sweet...


I enjoy historical novels when they teach me something new without boring me to tears. This debut novel is a story about first love, forbidden love, strained parental relationships, role models, alienation, bigotry, coming of age, courage and how music can be universal. But it is also about the evacuation of Seattle's entire Japanese community into internment camps during the hysteria of WW2 and the enormous conflict of cultures the Chinese had with those same Japanese.

Young Henry is approaching his teens and is being sent to an all white private school by his steadfast Chinese parents who want him to become as Americanized as possible as a first generation American. They also want him to be proud of his Chinese heritage, but to blend in with the country they now live in. They especially want everyone to know that he is not Japanese - the enemy of China and America during this period of 1942 and beyond. So they make him wear a pin at all times that reads "I AM CHINESE."

Henry is ostracized by his classmates who refer to him as a Jap. He is also abandoned by his former Chinese friends since he has been made to transfer schools. Alone and an outsider wherever he goes, he is delighted to make friends with another new student arriving at his school who stands out even more than he does - Keiko, a beautiful girl who is Japanese American.

Henry and Keiko form a strong bond of friendship and flirt with more until she and her family are sent away by the US Govt. to camps for their protection but which really are a way to round up anyone of Japanese descent and stick them in a prison camp until the war is over. Henry is smitten and heartbroken. His parents are furious that he would betray his roots and date the enemy.

Henry has to turn to some other adults in his life for guidance and support and tries to make sense of things and find his way through typical teenage troubles during incredibly atypical times.

This story was very engaging to me because the characters were so easy to care for and take interest in. The writing was easy to read, but the themes within the plot were quite thought provoking. The simplicity of the author's words did not result in a lack of poetic language.

The story is told juxtaposed with Henry's life as an adult and his own strained relationship with his college aged son. The past comes back to the forefront when a renovated hotel discovers belongings left behind by Japanese families forced away to internment camps. This clever plot device added maturity to the tale. Henry as an adult was not nearly as bright eyed and hopeful as Henry the young adult. Filling in the missing pieces to find out why was an interesting journey to take.

I was touched most by the love between the various characters - Henry and Keiko, Henry and his family, Henry and his good friend the Jazz musician Sheldon. Love is an effort - one worth fighting for. And to see people for who they are on the inside - not for what their button states that they are on the outside - is the true moral here.

The city of Seattle shines as a character throughout this book too. As does the world of Jazz. Many things to become exposed to - many things to want to learn more about. This book would make an excellent teaching tool for young adults studying about this time in America's history. I found it to be a good launching pad for seeking out more facts about that period of time too.

Sunday, April 24, 2011

ON MOVIES ~ Fuzzy Faces...

Feature Presentation...
MONDAY MOVIE MEME

Molly looked around for a weekly meme about movies and did not have any luck. So therefore she decided to start her own! Andy will play along as well - hopefully you will too. Go to your blog and create your own post on the topic, linking back to us in your post, then come back and leave a link to your post here in our Comments section. If you don’t have a blog, just share your response in the Comments section.

This week's movie topic is all about Facial Hair...

Boston is an Original Six hockey town. And right now the Bruins are caught up in a thrilling series with those hated Montreal Canadiens. The B's have mounted a determined comeback against the Habs including a double OT win over the weekend to take a series lead. Playoff hockey leads its players to grow playoff beards for good luck. Some of them, such as Bruins goalie Tim Thomas, choose instead to rock a porno stache. In the past, Andy has tried growing facial hair of his own in support of his team. Not my favorite idea. But I do have some favorite movie characters who rocked their facial hair. Here are a few we are particularly fond of. Share on your blog characters in film with memorable beards and or mustaches, linking back here so that others can find you. And don't forget to visit your fellow participants!

 Do you have a topic to suggest to the Monday Movie Meme? Or would you like to guest host? Let us know in the Comments section or send us an e-mail.

Thursday, April 21, 2011

ON BLOGGING ~ The Giving Tree...

BlogAnon: Joy of Confession

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Welcome to our weekly BlogAnon meeting where we confess a particular blogging sin and turn to you for support, suggestions and that blogging bond so we know we're not all alone. Don't be shy. Read along and let us know if you identify with us this week.

When I started blogging, the only gift I was looking for was the ability to talk to others around the world about books. I then discovered the gift that blogging gave to me by rekindling my love for writing and sparking those long dormant creative juices. It was also something fun for Andy and I to talk about and explore together out in the vast blogosphere. Though there are lots of blogging "sins" that I share here from time to time, today I am reflecting more on the blogging blessings.

Because of this blog, I have added a strong collection of very cool people to my circle of friends. That is the best gift by far. Many conversations have been exchanged in private through e-mail, on Google Chat or in public through comments or in our own Bumble Town Live Chats. I've even had a conversation face to face meeting up with a blogging buddy while passing through their town on vacation. On a different trip I visited another blogger's family member at their shop and talked a little Red Sox. Some day one of you will find your way to the Boston area and we'll be happy to meet you and share our fine city.

The majority of the time, these friendships remain virtual - no live meetings. But that doesn't stop the kindness from coming through. Folks are always passing along helpful solutions to the day's problems, suggestions, tasty recipes, advice and answers to any random question that I can think to throw at them. I am also forever amazed by the thoughtful tokens that have arrived in the mail. Books of course. But also hand crafted gifts, treats, fresh garden bounties, beautiful photos and presents that are best kept as inside secrets.

Sometimes gifts are the introductory step to a new friendship. Organized swaps that encourage bloggers to send gifts to each other are certainly fun and exciting. But getting to know that new blogger in the process is truly the best part of the experience.

The blogosphere can be a frustrating place sometimes. It can be scary too. But the little corner that I frequent happens to be a very generous and honest spot. And for that, I am thankful. It is what keeps me going. Whenever I can do the same for you, just let me know.


What blessings has the blogosphere provided to you?

Tuesday, April 19, 2011

ON FUN ~ Life Blinks...

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At the age of 45, writer Regina Brett wrote a column for the Cleveland Plain Dealer listing 45 lessons that life had taught her thus far. As a breast cancer survivor, many of those lessons were learned the hard way. Five years later she added five more lessons rounding her list up to 50 and turned her popular list into a book called God Never Blinks. I found her list to be entertaining, inspiring and thought provoking. I thought I would go through each of her lessons learned and write about how that lesson has or has not come up in my own life, now that I am 40 and feel old enough to have finally learned something.

"Everything can change in the blink of an eye. But don't worry; God never blinks."
~ LESSON #15

This is a pretty simple but very deep lesson. One that I suspect was born of the author's cancer diagnosis. It also became the title of her book. It basically states that even through the unexpected, the big guy upstairs has your back. He sees it all, anticipates, guides, comforts and provides strength - maybe even corrects. This lesson of course presumes a religious belief in God.

What I take away from it is that no matter how prepared you try to be or how comfortable you get, the rug can always be ripped right out from under you. For good things or bad. Expect the unexpected. Because eventually it will touch you directly. And when it does, seeking guidance and support from your faith or other beliefs can be of great comfort. And so can your fellow mankind. You aren't the first and won't be the last. While your life has been turned upside down, seek out those who have been there before and offer to be there for those after you when you are ready.

Car accidents, murder, disease, rapes, layoffs, natural disasters, heart attacks, fires, kidnappings. These are the terrible changes. Promotions, lotteries, pregnancies, love at first sight, cures, kind strangers, donations, escapes, luck. These are the terrific changes. Either way - someone up there is watching when your life blinks.

Life blinks every day for someone. Knowing you aren't alone when it happens to you makes the change to your life's perspective easier to accept and adapt to.

Monday, April 18, 2011

ON BOOKS ~ Some Bookish Interaction...


This Friday, 04/22, we will be discussing Jamie Ford's debut novel - Hotel On The Corner Of Bitter And Sweet - at 8:30PM ET right HERE in the Bumble Town Chat Room.

If you have read this book in the past or participated in this month's group read that we organized, stop by to discuss your thoughts on the story, the characters, the setting and the writing. Don't worry if it has been a while since you read the book - fuzzy details are fine and the conversation will likely jog your memory.

You can drop by any time between 8:30PM - 10:00PM ET for as long or short a period of time as you like. You simply log in as a Guest or with your Facebook ID and join the live chat by typing on your keyboard.

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If you are a book blogger you have probably heard of the big annual convention in NYC each May called the Book Expo America and the tie-in Book Blogger Convention. Perhaps you even have plans to attend. But for the rest of us, there is this handy idea in its second year of existence called the Armchair BEA, taking place from 05/23-05/27.

Registration is now open, the cost is free and the time commitment and participation level is up to you. I took part last year and had tons of fun meeting all levels and styles of book bloggers around the world. I highly recommend the experience which includes discussion panels, blogger interviews, daily theme posts, Tweet Ups, giveaways and more.

Sunday, April 17, 2011

ON MOVIES ~ Run Like The Wind...

Feature Presentation...
MONDAY MOVIE MEME

Molly looked around for a weekly meme about movies and did not have any luck. So therefore she decided to start her own! Andy will play along as well - hopefully you will too. Go to your blog and create your own post on the topic, linking back to us in your post, then come back and leave a link to your post here in our Comments section. If you don’t have a blog, just share your response in the Comments section.

This week's movie topic is all about Running...

Monday marks the 115th running of the Boston Marathon - the oldest annually contested marathon in the world. Having studied, lived and worked along its storied route for half my life, it holds a special place in my heart. I fulfilled my lifetime quota for running during 4 years of track in high school. Andy, as a former cross country athlete, has run in the challenging Falmouth Road Race on Cape Cod. But neither of us have or ever plan to run a marathon. Driving the route is tiring enough. We do know folks crazy enough to be running in Boston this year and wish them nothing but the best. Lots of movies feature runners, running scenes and foot races. Here is a small sampling of those off the top of our heads. Share on your blog those movies that make your feet tired just watching and link back here so that others can find you. And don't forget to visit your fellow participants!
  • Running Brave (1983) - True and inspiring story of American Indian Olympian, Billy Mills
  • Forrest Gump (1994) - Run, Forrest, Run!!! Boy did he ever.
  • The Running Man (1987) - Good thing Reality TV hasn't advanced to quite this level.
  • The Fugitive (1993) - Richard Kimball on the run for a murder he didn't commit.

 Do you have a topic to suggest to the Monday Movie Meme? Or would you like to guest host? Let us know in the Comments section or send us an e-mail.

Thursday, April 14, 2011

ON BLOGGING ~ Newsletter Help Wanted...

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I know that I usually use this space bi-weekly to share blogging tips with interested readers. But today I am trying to flag down some tips from any of you who might be able to help educate me on a particular area of recent interest.

I am looking for insight into how to create and best distribute an electronic newsletter.

If you are involved in a newsletter for your blog, your job, your volunteer activities or just happen to have knowledge about how to create and distribute them please tell me how!

Can you direct me to any tutorials, programs, guide books or other resources in this area? It is something I am looking into for future freelance writing opportunities. I think it would be fun and creative to help small businesses use them to generate better sales, referrals and repeat customers. But if I don't know how to implement my ideas for them, I'm not going to get many jobs.

I don't know how to create them in Word. I open the program and struggle with the templates. I don't know how to manipulate things well enough there on my own to create what I want. Am I missing something simple? Are there quality free or at cost templates out there on the web? Have you had experience with any electronic distribution sites and prefer one over the other?

If you don't have any way to help me directly, perhaps you know someone who might. I'd love to pick their brain. And of course, anything that I learn I would certainly turn into a lesson for a future Blog Tips post. And in order to hone my skills, I could always create a test Bumbles Blog Newsletter and use any dear volunteer readers as my guinea pigs to work out the kinks.

So, let me know if you can help a Bumble out. Much obliged!

Tuesday, April 12, 2011

ON FUN ~ Damaging Secrets...

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At the age of 45, writer Regina Brett wrote a column for the Cleveland Plain Dealer listing 45 lessons that life had taught her thus far. As a breast cancer survivor, many of those lessons were learned the hard way. Five years later she added five more lessons rounding her list up to 50 and turned her popular list into a book called God Never Blinks. I found her list to be entertaining, inspiring and thought provoking. I thought I would go through each of her lessons learned and write about how that lesson has or has not come up in my own life, now that I am 40 and feel old enough to have finally learned something.

"If a relationship has to be kept a secret, you shouldn't be in it."
~ LESSON #14

Secret loves. Secret friends. Secret jobs. Secret lives. They can all be damaging and not worth all of that exhilarating effort to keep them under wraps. I have withheld the existence of certain relationships in the beginning from certain parties. Usually to make sure it is going somewhere worth sharing. But the intent is not to keep something from them because I don't want them to know - I just want things to be at a certain point before I share the news. Such as when venturing into a new online writing project. I want to get my feet underneath me before sharing my public work with family. Or developing a bond with a new person. I may hang out with them a few times before I mention a new friendship to my existing circle. It isn't a secret. It isn't harmful if they find out before I've gotten around to telling them.

What is harmful is turning that original temporary delay of information into an extended period of hidden facts. This happened to me once and I still regret the way I handled things. I had begun to date someone new in college. I kept this relationship a secret from one of my closest friends, because I knew that he would be jealous and have his feelings hurt. I was too chicken to break the news to him so I just avoided the issue altogether. I juggled two sets of friends and did what I could to keep them from interacting and spilling the beans. I felt like I was having a sordid affair. And although it was exciting, in the end my friend found out from someone other than me. Which hurt his feelings even more than that difficult but honest conversation would have done had I been adult enough to have it.

The new boyfriend didn't last very long. My friendship with my disgruntled pal did. He is a good friend and important part of who I am to this day. Luckily for me, he forgave my secret and let his pride take a back seat to the bond we have.

If you are keeping relationships a secret, it is best to decide which side is more important to you - the one you are secretly with or the one you are hiding it from. Because eventually those worlds will collide and you'll have to pick a side when things are exposed. And they will be exposed. At the most inconvenient times. If your existing relationships are are strong as you need them to be, they just might be able to survive whatever involvement you have been hiding. If the secret is a better option than what you've had all along, you had better make sure that secret is in it for the long haul and then go all in, cutting bait honestly with your prior world.

Secrets torment the soul. Keeping things out in the open is the easiest way to go. But humans like to make life more difficult for themselves. Hopefully the secret relationships you have don't go on too long before you learn things the hard way and live to regret them.

Sunday, April 10, 2011

ON MOVIES ~ Flower Power...

Feature Presentation...
MONDAY MOVIE MEME

Molly looked around for a weekly meme about movies and did not have any luck. So therefore she decided to start her own! Andy will play along as well - hopefully you will too. Go to your blog and create your own post on the topic, linking back to us in your post, then come back and leave a link to your post here in our Comments section. If you don’t have a blog, just share your response in the Comments section.

This week's movie topic is all about Flowers...

A week ago in the Boston area we had snow falling. Now it is approaching the 80's. With this sudden warmth, buds are popping up on the trees and from the ground. I never remember what flowers were planted where, so Spring to me is like a surprise present every year. Flowers and plants abound in the movies. Sometimes they are the main characters. Other times they are the name of a character. There are movies featuring stunning flower visuals in scenes and other times a plant is a driving force behind the overall theme. Pick any angle of the flower and plant in film variety and share your movie list on your blog, linking back here so others can find you. Here is our contribution - a list of movies with flowers or plants appearing in the title. Don't forget to visit your fellow participants!

 Do you have a topic to suggest to the Monday Movie Meme? Or would you like to guest host? Let us know in the Comments section or send us an e-mail.

Thursday, April 7, 2011

ON BLOGGING ~ Be Our Guest...

BlogAnon: Joy of Confession

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Welcome to our weekly BlogAnon meeting where we confess a particular blogging sin and turn to you for support, suggestions and that blogging bond so we know we're not all alone. Don't be shy. Read along and let us know if you identify with us this week.

I like to talk. With my fingers or my mouth - doesn't matter. That makes me well suited for the blogosphere. Sometimes there are things I'd like to say that don't really suit our little blog here. Which is when guest posts are a great outlet.

When I'm out and about reading your blogs I always jump at a chance to provide a guest post if the blogger is putting out a call for them. Sometimes bloggers will do this when they are planning to be away from their blog for a trip or other important moments in life. Other times they have recurring features that allow bloggers a space to speak out. Volunteering to appear on someone else's blog is exciting, challenging, nerve wracking and beneficial to both parties.

You get to share something with a new audience. The hosting blogger gets to feature a fresh voice rather than taking extra time to advance write posts for the scheduled absence. Win, win.

What I find uncomfortable are unsolicited requests for guest posts on our blog. I'm always open to suggestions. But it is still our space. Not a place that is open for just anyone, anytime to provide material. That's what the comment section is for. In fact, I love inspired comments that encourage conversation and lead to collaborations. I'm not talking about those kinds of solicitations. I mean receiving e-mails from folks I don't know wanting to pitch something. It is never out of the goodness of their heart. It most always requires a return favor. If I let them guest post and link here, then they'll let me do the same there. That sounds more like work to me. Someone wanting to market and promote themselves wherever they can, rather than focusing on their own space and being an invited guest elsewhere after spending the time to build relationships.

Maybe I'm taking those types of messages the wrong way. I generally disregard them entirely if I do not know the blogger at all. Perhaps I am missing out on meeting a cool blogger because of that. But if it feels spammy I'm not taking the risk of wasting my time.

I would love to open up the Friday blogging posts to any of you though. Whether we've spoken before or not. Strangers welcome to solicit this time around. Do you have something that you'd like to share on Blog Tips? Or something you'd like to confess or vent about on BlogAnon? Let us know in the comments or send us an e-mail if you are shy.

Guest posting is a lot of fun and good exposure. And when arranged in the right way, it can also create new blogging relationships that you'll value for a long time. Here's your open invitation. Give it a try!


Have you ever done a guest post or hosted someone else on your blog? Did you use the opportunity to get to know a new audience? Did you know that a guest blogger will bring new visitors to your space as well as introducing your readers to that blogger? Cross pollination at its finest!

Tuesday, April 5, 2011

ON BOOKS ~ What Do Letterman & Foreign Novels Have In Common?...


After writing my review of The Count of Monte Cristo for Quirky Girls Read, I wondered if the translation I read had any effect on my enjoyment. The Late Show With David Letterman has "Know Your Cuts Of Meat." Today on Quirky Girls Read I have a post that could be described as "Know Your Types Of Translators."

Stop on by if you have the time and let me know what you think. And while you're over there, you might find some other recent topics of interest such as:

Sunday, April 3, 2011

ON MOVIES ~ Ladies In Orange Jumpsuits...

Feature Presentation...
MONDAY MOVIE MEME

Molly looked around for a weekly meme about movies and did not have any luck. So therefore she decided to start her own! Andy will play along as well - hopefully you will too. Go to your blog and create your own post on the topic, linking back to us in your post, then come back and leave a link to your post here in our Comments section. If you don’t have a blog, just share your response in the Comments section.

This week's movie topic is all about Women & Prison...

Nicole at The Madlab Post is all things Indy Film. She's got lots to say about her industry of choice and it would serve you well to stop by. She suggested a topic for us and we thought it best to go along, for fear of being locked up if we disobeyed. We've covered prison movies, heists and jail breaks before, but we've never focused on the fairer sex and their portrayal in the prison system. Nicole wants to focus on women who are held captive or imprisoned during a film. I would broaden that scope to include women who hold roles as guards and captors. There is one film that leaped to mind instantly, and that's the only one we're going to highlight today. Share on your blog movies that feature female prisoners, guards, or those who are accused and on their way to the Big House, linking back here. And don't forget to visit your fellow participants!
    So who would have thought that the sparklingly beautiful Charlize Theron could play the role of rough around the edges, utterly damaged and unstable Aileen Wuornos so convincingly in this 2003 "based on the true story" account of her transformation from prostitute to serial killer? I thought the story was tragic, the psyche twisted and the movie well done.

 Do you have a topic to suggest to the Monday Movie Meme? Or would you like to guest host? Let us know in the Comments section or send us an e-mail.