Thursday, September 30, 2010

ON BLOGGING ~ Leave The Hammertoe Out Of It...

BlogAnon: Joy of Confession

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Welcome to our weekly BlogAnon meeting where we confess a particular blogging sin and turn to you for support, suggestions and that blogging bond so we know we're not all alone. Don't be shy. Read along and let us know if you identify with us this week.

You have heard the term TMI, yes? As in Too Much Information? This is a pet peeve of mine in the blogosphere and I'll tell you why.

There is a person in my office who does not have a social filter. Health issues, love life, kids' struggles, family history - you name it, they spill it. Many of these details are uncomfortable to hear, inappropriate in their timing or just plain boring. But the individual without the filter has a big heart and has everyone's back so I forgive the awkward conversation.

I am convinced that many bloggers have face to face filters but use their blogs to spill everything they hold inside. Which is fine. Your blog, your forum. But honestly, just because I've never met you doesn't mean I want to be the recipient of all that stuff you wouldn't dare tell me in person.

I'm not trying to squash personal release. All I'm saying is that there is a way to share personal struggles, pain, complaints or achievements - and a way to make me run for the hills. Give me a taste, not the whole meal. I don't want to read your diary, your journal or eavesdrop like a fly on the wall. I want to know who you are and why you do what you do, but not all the gory details between the lines. I like a bit of subtlety, not the details of your hammertoe. Ick.

*Sigh* Everyone's filter is different. I understand that. Which is the nice part about TMI on a blog - if it bugs me I can just click away. It would be highly rude of me to walk away from the person in my office who was in mid-sentence of an awkward sharing moment. But in the blogosphere you don't even know I'm there unless I tell you. At least there's that.


What types of sharing do you consider to be TMI in the blogosphere? Have you ever abandoned an otherwise lovely blog because of TMI? Or do you wish bloggers would step out behind that curtain and share MORE information for you to lurk on?

Wednesday, September 29, 2010

ON HOME ~ The Little Library...


As part of my virtual tour for you of my adopted hometown of Natick, MA I recently gushed about its public library in the center of town.  And while that library is amazing in size, service, collection, history and architecture it is not my favorite library in Natick.  You see, we are lucky enough to have not one, but TWO libraries in town.


The Bacon Free Library is located in historic South Natick, a short walk from where we rented our apartment before buying a home closer to the center.  When we lived there I was too busy with planning a wedding and trying to find a home to bother with reading.  In fact, that point in my life came near the end of a long reading drought so I never stepped foot in the "little library" just up the street until I became less self-absorbed and had moved across town.  But the first time that I did visit it to pick up an inter-library loan I actually gasped.  What the heck had I been missing?!


This place is very small and very old.  It smells like you are living inside a very old but very well loved book.  It looks like you are browsing around someone's home.  It is compact which makes it impossible to be there without getting to know the others visiting the library that day.


In fact, it is best known for its incredibly popular Story Hour.  Families pack the place with kids eager to be told tales from kindly librarians with a gift for capturing attention and harnessing imagination.  There are also monthly Art for All programs which encourage people of all ages to stop by and become creative together in the medium of the month.  Then there is the Author Series where writers big and small give intimate talks to interested patrons.  Sue Grafton is one such example.




The library is nestled along the banks of the Charles River - that pretty slice of water you see the Boston 4th of July fireworks shoot off of each summer.  Of course, The Charles stretches throughout the state, but the downtown shots are how most people recognize it.  But that is a post for another day.  The library sits up on a hill and the sloping hill plateaus out underneath huge shade trees with the beautiful Natick Dam spilling behind on the river.  This is where they host the authors, free music performances, garden tours and fund raising events.  It is tucked out of the way of the traffic and is just an awesome spot to dive right in to that new book you just checked out.

Natick's Historical Society is housed in the basement of the library and has very limited hours but I am hoping to get there one day when they are open.  I would love to know more about the building itself.  All that the website tells me is that the library has existed since 1880 and is one of the oldest in the country.  Like libraries everywhere it is hurting from budget cuts and is doing its best to stay open and staffed full-time with employees receiving part-time wages.  This past weekend they had a big rummage sale which netted me a stationery set and a small rug for Andy's latest Andy Town project - the shed.  But there were lots of other pretty items to choose from.


I hope its doors are able to stay open for this section of the community.  It is like the Mom & Pop store trying not to get overlooked by the big chains.  I do my best to support it and wish I had spent time there when I lived just around the corner.  Natick's "little library" has a big heart and a long history.  And we are lucky to have her.

What types of events or services does your library offer for the community?  Do you even think of your library as a place to go for something other than books?  What kind of fund raising methods does your library use?

Tuesday, September 28, 2010

ON PHOTOS ~ Shutterbug Love...


If you spend any time here at The Bumbles Blog you will know that I love to take photos.  So it is really cool when I play along with Shutterday and find out that anonymous strangers have voted my photo submissions into the winner's circle!  Because of Shutterday I take photos of the most random things because you never know when the theme of the week will be "Rust" or some such thing.  And every week, I am surprised and challenged and unprepared for the actual topic. But a few times this year, I have finished in the top three!

Shutterday is unique among the photo memes in that you have a week to submit your photo and then there is a week for anyone to vote for as many photos as they like.  The photos with the most votes are tallied up and the winners are revealed on the site for all to see.  You don't win any prizes but you don't have to blog hop either - all the entries are viewable right within the Shutterday site.

You see submissions from all levels of ability and you don't need to be a pro to finish on top.  Everyone has their own criteria for voting and so the playing field is always level.  If you are a shutterbug and love a challenge, visit Shutterday to play along whenever you like. It is a lot of fun and has truly made me look around this world of ours with a more detailed eye - wondering what the players at Shutterday might think of THAT image...

JANUARY, 2010 - SOLO 3RD PLACE FOR "FIRST PHOTO OF 2010":


01-01-2010 - Watching Hockey @ the Winter Classic - Fenway Park, Boston, MA

APRIL, 2010 - TIED FOR 3RD PLACE FOR "PINK":

05-12-2007 - Elizabeth Park - Hartford, CT

JUNE, 2010 - TIED FOR 3RD PLACE FOR "SPOTTED":

06-18-2010 - Andy's 10 Year Old Fish - Natick, MA

JULY, 2010 - SOLO 1ST PLACE FOR "KISS ME LIKE YOU MEAN IT":

09-14-2008 - Nath & Jess' First Dance -Mystic, CT

SEPTEMBER, 2010 - TIED FOR 3RD PLACE FOR "GATHERING STORM":

08-19-2006 - Storm Front - Dexter, ME

Monday, September 27, 2010

ON BOOKS ~ A Challenging Book Discussion...


During our first ever Bumble Town Chat this past Friday night, one of the bloggers involved (Boliyou) pointed out that this week is Banned Books Week, sponsored by the American Library Association among other organizations. That doesn't mean that America's libraries go around banning books all week. To the contrary. It is a week to highlight the effect of censorship in the world of words.

Year after year, a select minority become offended by a book they find on their library shelves or on their child's assigned reading list at school. So they challenge the book's appropriateness or worth and ask that it be banned and removed. What this does is to allow a small handful of people to restrict what the rest of the community is able to access. If you want to read it you have to buy it. Not something everyone has the ability to do. This contradiction to the First Amendment boggles my mind every time. Banning books is an act of censorship. Thankfully it often times backfires and brings greater attention to the very work these people were trying to take out of the spotlight completely.

Generally, books that show up on the banned or challenged list each year are books that cover things that are uncomfortable. Books that speak about parts of the past that are not pretty. Books that speak about parts of the present that aren't widely accepted or understood. People challenge books out of fear rather than common sense. While they have every right to disagree with a certain work's message, language or content they do not have the right to keep others from making up their own minds about it.

I do think that selecting a book to meet the best maturity level of students in schools is a challenge. And often it is good to use books to challenge a student's mind about the world, their relationships to others and things beyond our control. If the assigned reading does not fit with your religious or moral beliefs you have every right to work with the school to find alternative selections for your child. You could use the book as an opportunity to discuss your passionate beliefs with your child rather than try and hide them from opposite opinions. But you should not dictate the rights of everyone else in that school.

I am wrapping up a re-read of my favorite book, To Kill A Mockingbird. This re-read was a special birthday present to myself. Every year someone challenges this book. This year, a school in Ontario pulled it from their shelves. Banned. For using the N word and portraying black people in a bad light. When I participated in an online book group discussion of this book last year on Goodreads, my eyes were opened. This group consisted primarily of British folk. Time and again members commented that the writing was beautiful but the story just wasn't believable because of all the stereotypical characters. They had not spent a lot of time in their schooling covering America's history in the 1900's and truly found it hard to believe that our nation was REALLY LIKE THIS. Blacks were treated as secondary citizens - and begrudgingly as citizens at all. Slurs were used. They had no rights. They had no chance. But things have changed. Books like this help to show how far we have come - and how much further we still need to go. Rather than using this incredible book to teach lessons of integrity, courage and respect, people want to take it away and sweep it under the rug. Ignorance is not bliss. It leads us right back to the very heart of what To Kill A Mockingbird illustrates so well.

This all gets my blood boiling to be quite honest. It rankled the skin of my fellow bloggers in our group chat and so we decided, in honor of Banned Books Week, that we would select a book from the list and encourage a big group read - to be discussed at the next Bumble Town Chat on Friday, October 22nd at 8:30PM ET. There were, sadly, a lot of amazing books to choose from on this list. But one stood out to us as incredibly ironic - Margaret Atwood's The Handmaid's Tale. This dystopian book hits a tad too close to home showing what could actually happen to this free world of ours with just a bit of panic. Kind of what our world would be like if all those book challengers gained the power to restrict information, control human behavior and suppress certain sections of society and those who support them - in the name of humanity's survival. Absolutely chilling.

If you have never read this book, now would be a terrific time to do so. It is a book that you will need to discuss upon completion. And we will be doing just that on 10/22. If you have read this book before, you understand why it was selected. And I'm sure you still have lots to say about it. So come back and say it. There is no censorship on The Bumbles Blog.

Sunday, September 26, 2010

ON MOVIES ~ Stolen Goods...

Feature Presentation...
MONDAY MOVIE MEME

Molly looked around for a weekly meme about movies and did not have any luck. So therefore she decided to start her own! Andy will play along as well - hopefully you will too. Go to your blog and create your own post on the topic, linking back to us in your post, then come back and leave a link to your post here in our Comments section. If you don’t have a blog, just share your response in the Comments section.

This week's movie topic is all about Heists & Capers...

Last month when we covered Prison movies, it got me to thinking about all of the great movies out there showing the other side of the coin - the heists/robberies/capers that create criminal characters we end up rooting for. Here are some of our favorites. Share on your blog favorite heist & caper movies, linking back here at The Bumbles. And don't forget to visit your fellow participants!
 Do you have a topic to suggest to the Monday Movie Meme? Or would you like to guest host? Let us know in the Comments section or send us an e-mail.

Thursday, September 23, 2010

ON BLOGGING ~ Group Hug...

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 "What if there really WAS enough time?"

During Terry Kate's last online conference for bloggers, she had a panel all about time management with guest Janet Bailey who is what I would call a productivity coach.  She helps clients analyze their needs and diagnose their road blocks and then tailors a realistic plan for them to make them more productive.  Her quote above really got me to thinking what options are out there for bloggers.

While listening to another panel from the same conference about author blogs, I discovered a concept that is not often used but could be a good solution for bloggers of all niches - and even the nicheless ones like us.  Group Blogging.

Group Blogging basically means one blog has a collection of bloggers contributing posts.  This can either be on a set schedule or randomly - whatever works best for the bloggers involved.  But the idea is that bloggers with a common genre/niche/goal put their efforts under one umbrella and provide interesting fodder without the pressure of coming up with the interesting fodder all by yourself every single day.

This could work well especially for a book blog.  I have seen Group Blogs for book blogs covering one specific niche - such as Romance for example.  But it might work really well too if you did a group effort for a book blog that covered all types of genres - then each blogger would be a specialist in their genre of preference.  So if I covered "Classics" I would post on Mondays every week reviewing a classic or discussing the classic genre.  Then on Tuesdays, Sandy would handle Audio Books.  Wednesdays would be DS' turn for all things Poetry.  Margot would handle Cozy Mysteries on Thursdays.  Jehara could handle Nonfiction on Fridays.  Cindy could post about Kid Lit on Saturdays.  And Sundays could be a guest blogger covering their favorite Fiction, Romance, Graphic Novels, etc.  Wouldn't that be fun?

Group Blogging allows bloggers to keep their mojo.  To keep their peeps.  And to gain TIME.  Collaboration, when done with the right mix of ideas and tolerance levels, is a great concept.  Losing complete control of your spot in the blogosphere however might be a scary thought to some.  I'm not sure how we would react to a Group Bumble Blog.  Are there that many nicheless bloggers out there who would want to join forces?  How would editorial issues be decided?  What kind of randomness would even be covered?  Hmmmmmmm.


The first ever Bumble Town Chat will take place tonight at 8:30PM ET right here.  Come collaborate in conversation about how you write and read book reviews and how you add or drop blogs you follow.

Wednesday, September 22, 2010

ON HOME ~ It Takes A Graveyard...


When I was a child, my mother used to bring my brother and I to old graveyards and do rubbings of all the old headstones.  Some might think that macabre but I always thought it was cool.  It was like an art project outside.  And a history lesson too.  Back in the day, headstones were carved with pretty designs and carried wonderful commentary about those who left us behind.  They tell stories to anyone wanting to take the time to visit.  Which is why I wandered over to the old cemetery in the historic section of South Natick in my adopted hometown to see what stories it held.


These are the types of rubbings my mom would make.  This particular design was very pretty but also kind of spooky.  And it was quite prevalent throughout this old graveyard.  I am used to seeing religious symbols recreated in graveyards but not this intricate weeping willow design.  I don't know the meaning behind it but I would like to know.


Here is one of the headstones that was adorned by the willow design.  The decorative carvings may have a meaning behind them unknown to me, but the words laid out at the bottom of each headstone speak volumes about what the surviving family wants us to know about the departed.  They tell terrific stories all their own.  This is Ms. Olynda Bird.  She died in 1828 at the age of 28 and was virtuous and amiable.  But I loved the gift of words peeking at me from the base of her headstone:

"She was a daughter lovely a sister dear,
A faithful companion and friend sincere,
She left this world of woe and pain,
Our loss we trust is her eternal gain."


Some people resting here are not as easy to get to.  There are sections overgrown tucked in corners surrounded by weeds that I am hesitant to wade through for fear of poison ivy.  And this marker specifically reminded me of Neil Gaiman's terrific YA book, "The Graveyard Book," where a baby crawls into a cemetery after his family is murdered and is protected and raised by the spirits who live there.  Some areas are more overgrown than others and he meets some very special folk in those particular places.  I wonder who this old soul was?


Sadly, in old graveyards especially, you find more young souls than old.  This plastic statue was placed on a footmarker of a child's grave.  I thought it was a real carving until I went to touch it.  But rather than be disappointed in fake stone I was touched that someone in modern days cared enough to place it at the grave of a child who died so long ago.


Sometimes I will admit, it does get a bit creepy in graveyards.  These markers have been invaded by a grand tree that at some point was planted as a small sapling to bring shade and comfort to these families' mourners.  Now it is pushing the gravestones aside.  It looks like a Halloween set-up and gave me a bit of a shiver in the bright daylight.


This site made me proud.  Many of those left at rest in this graveyard were veterans.  Of the Civil War.  Such a deadly war and tremendous sacrifice of life that our country survived.  That is an important lesson cemeteries teach us.  Every life has a story, and many contributed to important moments of history.  You can learn more about your region's people and their impact at a local graveyard than you can in the history books sometimes.  All you need are a few lasting headstones and a curiosity to delve into their meanings.  I can't wait to visit our town's Historical Society and learn more about the people whose markers tell the tales of my town's past.
Does your town have a cemetery?  Have you ever stopped to read the stories left behind in the engravings and appreciate the art displayed in these final impressions?

Tuesday, September 21, 2010

ON TRAVEL ~ Vacationland...

We wanted to share how we spent last week instead of actively visiting all of you in the blogosphere.  We took a vacation with my family that happened to coincide with my Big 4-0.  I can't think of a better way to greet another year of living.

Our first day was crummy weather so we took a drive to do some shopping.  But along the way we stopped at a very famous lighthouse.  You can't actually get to it unless you live there since it is on an island.  I bet it gets wicked cold out there on a stormy winter night.

The next day we took a stroll overlooking the ocean.  There were lots of spots to take your breath away so it took a while to get where we were going.

Where we were going was to sample some very fresh local fare from a highly recommended and enjoyable restaurant.


Over where we had lunch is one of the region's most photographed coves, where we saw plenty of fishing boats.  I also got to operate the drawbridge on the footbridge.  The first time we were there I learned the ropes.  The second time we visited I controlled the operation.

Blessed with more sunny skies, we spent the next day wandering along the beach.  There were a few brave (i.e. stupid) souls taking a dip in the ocean, but most were content to stroll the beach, build sandcastles or fly kites.  Some surfers and fishermen enjoyed their day as well.

The next day was my birthday and we decided to take a drive over to where a former President has a famous retreat.  But we were more preoccupied with the type of candy you find sold at any ocean town worth its salt.

We headed back to our temporary home where we played a favorite outdoor game, opened presents and had a dessert buffet instead of cake.  Quite a birthday party!

Since the next day was rainy again, my sister-in-law and I treated ourselves to some spa services.  My manicure is still holding up and she loved her massage.  After another stroll by the ocean later, we took a different route back and discovered the local library.

Our last day we parted ways from my family and headed off for a hike in the woods.  From there we had a nice view of some very familiar mountains we have visited many times.  We also got to say goodbye to the coast that treated us so nicely all week long.

It was a terrific week with very little travel hassle.  A return trip is high on our list.  Can you guess where we were?  If you want to see some of my best photos from my favorite part of our trip - click HERE.  Our kitty Tedy however was bored without us and hopes we don't leave him again for a long time.  Sorry Tedy Bear!

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